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| Bountiful, BC |
In the news recently,
Winston Blackmore, leader of the
Mormon fundamentalist community in
Bountiful, British Columbia, Canada was taken to court yet again. The
LDS Church had lapsed in their right to have the name "
Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints" in Canada. So Winston snatched it up. He purchased the legal rights to the name, and, of course, the LDS Church took him to court. They won the right to the name and, furthermore, blocked him from using the name, along with the generic term "
Mormon", which is ridiculous. There are a multitude of
Restoration churches and organizations that use that name and who use the
Book of Mormon. How is it that the Utah-based church is the only entity that has a right to that name?
Anyway, I decided to write about my visit to Bountiful in March of last year.
I have a friend who lives in Winston Blackmore's community, and he invited us out. Our visit would be part of a larger journey. We were planning on visiting a few families in Idado, detouring up to British Canada, and then finish out by seeing my friend,
Nathan Collier, in Montana, whose family was featured last week on "
Sister Wives". The visit in Montana fell through, but we were able to go to Canada - my first visit ever in that fair country.
In the afternoon, my father-in-law, my brother-in-law, and I left Boise and headed towards Oregon. Our first mishap occurred when we hit the first gas station. My father-in-law could not find his credit card. We backtracked and looked everywhere. After about an hour of looking, he found it in the shoe he was wearing. The night before, for safe keeping, he had slid it in his shoe for safe-keeping and then forgot it was there.
We crossed into Oregon - also my first time in that state and cut across to Kennisaw. It was dusk as we pulled into that city, and the lights extended into the horizon. I texted my friend in Canada. He said that he had spoken to Winston. He had business in Spokane the next morning and would meet us there. It was dark when we pulled into Spokane. We stopped by
Denny's for a late night dinner, and then checked into a hotel.
For those who know that I have health problems, I woke up with swollen, throbbing legs - all caused by riding into a cramped
Prius. For a moment, I wondered if coming on this trip was a good idea.
At 6:00 in the morning, I got a call from Winston. His business was detouring him to Missoula, Montana. He was sending someone else from the community, and then he would meet us later up in
Bonner's Ferry, Idaho, right on the Canadian border.
After breakfast, we met Winston's representative in the hotel parking lot - a kind, soft-spoken bespectacled man named
Shem. His accent spoke of southern Utah, and, sure enough, he was originally from
Colorado City. He had business in Spokane, so we piled into his very nice diesel pickup and rode around while he stopped at different shops. Shem, along with many of the men in the community, worked for a commercial construction business based out of Bonner's Ferry.
Once his business was done, we headed up towards Bonner's Ferry. My father-in-law followed us in the Prius, and I sat in cab with Shem. As we got onto the highway, I looked at him and said, "Perhaps you are wondering what we are doing here, what our intentions are. Honestly, I don't know. We were invited to come and meet Winston, and well, here we are."
I made this statement, because I could sense the question, the wariness of having a stranger come out. He didn't say much about my comment. We spent some time playing the game that most
polygs do when they meet each other - who knows who. As a child, going to visit relatives in Colorado City with my dad, I met many of the old-timers is that community.
Then Shem gave me some background of their community.
For the two hour drive, we have a
good discussion. One of the things that
I learned – things were NOT as we were told in Colorado City. Many of the things that he told me reminded
me of things that other ex-FLDS had told me.
Things were really good under “Uncle” LeRoy Johnson. He was a kind man and well-loved. There were not so many arranged marriages
back then. The women had a choice where
they wanted to go, and, like Centennial Park, they discouraged men from trying
to seek wives.
I asked Shem if they now practice
placement in marriages, and he skirted the issue, not really answering me.
When Rulon Jeffs came into power, he
became sick and had a stroke. Warren
Jeffs came into power, because he isolated his father and began speaking for
him. When Rulon died, Warren essentially
seized power and began taking wives away from men and cutting off men. At this point, many of the people in Colorado
City decided to cut themselves off from Warren, including Winston.
Shem mentioned that they remembered
something that they had been taught, that Joseph Musser had had a stroke and
that he wasn't held accountable for the things that he did (which, of course, I
don’t agree with, because the thing that he did was to set apart Rulon Allred.)
He told me that half of the
community lives in Bonner’s Ferry, those who are American citizens, and that
half of them live in Bountiful. Many
have wives, children, and/ or jobs on both sides of the border and that many
people from the FLDS – or “Warrenites” as they call them – still live in the
community.
Shem is a nice guy, but I could
tell that he was feeling us out. He
reiterated that they were a simple people and believed in the teachings of
Jesus Christ and Joseph Smith. There was
a death in the family down in Colorado City, so Shem was actually going to
leave with his family as soon as he dropped us off. He was going to take us to their offices to
meet up with Nate, an employee that works as a foreman for their
company. He made several phone calls
while he drove, making arrangements to leave with his family.
We pulled into their shop in
Bonner’s Ferry. It was a large
warehouse. We were introduced to Nate. Right away, you could tell that
he was kin. His mother is a Jessop, and
you can tell. He was a nice man. They sat us down in the lobby to wait. We sat there while Shem
arranged to leave, and Nate wrapped up his work.
They mentioned to us that we would
be staying in the apartment that they have on the top story of the office. I became concerned. My friend from Canada was texting me, asking me
where we were. I told him that I felt
like we were being detained at the office until they decided whether we were
good or not, that we were being screened. My friend from Canada answered, “You probably are.”
I told Nate that we kind
of needed to know what the plans were, because our friend was waiting for
us. He said that we were waiting for
Winston to get back from Missoula, and then we would meet up with him and
decide what we were doing. He asked if
we were hungry, so he invited us out to lunch.
I hopped in with Nate, and we
went into Bonner’s Ferry to a local deli.
We met Nathan’s wife who was running the sandwich shop. She served us sandwich wraps and
smoothies. It was good. I was so hungry. She seemed really nice. She is a Barlow.
While we sat and visited with
Nate, we got the same story that we got from Shem, and so I could kind of see
their rhetoric. Their split from
Warren. The justification about Joseph
Musser being senile after his stroke and not being accountable, hence Rulon
Jeffs not being accountable for the things that Warren did in his name. The gospel is a simple thing; we should get
back to the basics and just teach what Jesus Christ and Joseph Smith taught. My father-in-law asked him how Warren could get away with
bypassing the council and taking power the way he did. He was intelligent and manipulative. He was known to be a pervert from the early
days.
From there, we went to Nate’s
house. He apologized profusely about his
humble house. It was a beautiful,
two-story log cabin. In the entrance,
there was a huge room with an enormous, hand-carved wooden table in that was
curved. We went into the kitchen, and I
met Nate’s other wife, also a Barlow.
I really liked her. They had a
large kitchen equipped to feed a large family.
We also met Nate’s sons. Eventually more people showed up
and visited with us. There were stories
and laughter and discussions. They
served us dinner. Later in the evening, my friends from Canada showed up.
I almost didn’t recognize them; it had been a while since I had seen them.
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| Winston Blackmore |
Then, after dark, Winston showed up
with a wife and a daughter. Winston is a short, stocky man with longish
white hair and glasses. He was wearing a
white shirt and a leather vest, and didn’t look at all like someone who was
once FLDS. He had a charisma about him,
and the whole room got quiet when he walked in, in deference to him. He sat down and talked to us while he ate
dinner.
He told us that his father had been
set apart as bishop and presiding elder in Canada by Charles Zitting. He had been set apart in that position by his
father. He recounted the story about
they had split off from Warren Jeffs. He
used a lot of the same rhetoric that Shem and Nate had used,
about Joseph Musser’s senility. He
talked about, because they had gone through what they had gone through with
Warren that they no longer believed in the One Man Doctrine. As a result, they had adopted a streamlined
version of the gospel. They focused on
the teachings of Joseph Smith. They
focused on what Jesus taught. As far as
what other men taught, like Brigham Young, well, they honor what Brigham did
and what he taught, but they acknowledge that he was just a man, prone to
mistakes.
“I don’t give a rat’s ass what
Lorin Woolley taught,” he said. “Don’t
get me wrong. I still believe in the
8-Hour Meeting. I just don’t care about
anything he said. I want to know what
the Savior said.”
Although I think they are throwing
the proverbial baby out with the bath water, I could respect what he said, and
I could understand the circumstances that brought them to this. It was refreshing to hear these sentiments
coming from someone from the FLDS. I
told Winston as much when I shook his hand at the end of the meeting. He brushed aside my comments, though. I don’t believe he thought I was
sincere. I don’t know what kind of
people he is used to dealing with.
We wrapped up the visit, and Nate gave us the key to the office. We drove
back to the office and went up into the apartment. It was really nice, like a timeshare. There were two bedrooms, both of them very
nice. My brother-in-law and I took one, and my father-in-law took the other. The pantry was
well-stocked. I took a chance to use the
washer and dryer and did my laundry.
Then I went to bed, my legs quite swollen. What a day.
